Wednesday, January 14, 2009

To be or not to be…Normal?

What is normal or not normal in relationships? What is acceptable or not acceptable in relationships?

(1) Is it normal for you to start hating the quirky traits you fell in love with in your partner?
(2) Is it normal to go for more than one month without sex if you are in a relationship?
(3) Is it normal for a guy to treat you like a girlfriend, but not call you his girlfriend?
(4) Is it normal to flirt with other people? When your partner’s not around? What about when your partner is around?
(5) Is it normal to discuss your sex life with friends?
(6) Is it normal to experiment in the bedroom?
(7) Is it normal to cheat?
(8) Is it normal for men to cry?
(9) Is it normal for you or your partner to talk on the phone to people of the opposite sex (or the same sex if you are homosexual) late at night after you have hung up the phone with your significant other?
(10) Is it normal to fantasize about other people when you are with your partner (whether it is past lovers, people you may be attracted to, celebrities, etc.)?
(11) Is it normal to fool around with your wife/husband in front of your children? What is the cut off age?
(12) Is it normal for you to fall for your Ex’s family member, friend, acquaintance, business partner, etc.?
(13) Is it normal to flirt with your good friends Ex?
(14) Is it normal for you to stay in contact with an Ex while you are in a new relationship? Or should you cut off all communication with your Ex’s when you start a new relationship?
(15) Is it normal to date a co-worker?

Inspired by: http://www.mandjshow.com/videos/relationship-101-is-it-normal/

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

That poses an interesting question. Do you just get into relationships to get out of them? On the conscious level we don't do this on purpose of course. Acceptable,normal; these are all a matter of opinion. Its better to go with the flow than to form assumptions.

Anonymous said...

Most normal Americans are fat, broke and unhappy. Choose to be abnormal. Go ahead love, get married, be faithful. Go out and dance or go out and run. Always smile! In the immortal words of Hector Lavoe "Llegaron los abnormales."