Monday, May 30, 2011

Es Demasiado Tarde

I feel this song in the depths of my heart and soul
She does such an amazing job and the lyrics are fantastic
Enjoy!


Es Demasiado Tarde by Ana Gabriel

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Tú, quisiste estar allá
dijiste que quizá, ese era tu destino
después que todo te fallo, hoy quieres regresar
y ser feliz conmigo

Pero tu, no piensas que mi amor
por siempre te olvido, y exiges mi cariño
de veras lo siento no podré
volverme a enamorar
de ti ya no es lo mismo

Solo espero que entiendas que un amor
se debe de cuidar y no jugar con nadie
porque yo te daba mi querer y aun sin merecer
no te dolió dejarme


Ahora vuelves, buscando mi calor
diciendo que jamas lograste olvidarme
pero yo te aclaro de una vez
lo debes de entender
es demasiado tarde

Yo no te guardo rencor
pero tampoco amor, de ti ya nada queda
no niego fue mucho mi dolor
pero eso ya paso
mejor ya nunca vuelvas

Solo espero que entiendas que un amor
se debe de cuidar y no jugar con nadie
porque yo te daba mi querer y aun sin merecer
no te dolió dejarme


Ahora vuelves, buscando mi calor
diciendo que jamas lograste olvidarme
pero yo te aclaro de una vez
lo debes de entender
es demasiado tarde

Porque tu, quisiste estar allá
quisiste estar allá

Friday, May 27, 2011

Si Yo Fuera Un Chico - Beyoncé

Hay muchos hombres que no saben cuando tienen una mujer que vale la pena y cuanto sus acciones nos hacen daño


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The Colour Of My Love by Celine Dion

I absolutely love this song.

When you find the right one, you will know.
Love is love.


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Sunday, May 22, 2011

Can you stop comparing?

“There is no way that the love that I had with Big is the same thing that he has with Natasha.” – Carrie (Sex and the City, Season 2, Ex and the City)

Isn't it crazy how you could feel such a strong connection to someone, but then for whatever reason the relationship doesn't work out and then most relationships after that one are trying to win first place? In life, we compare tastes, clothing, shoes, prices, styles, sounds, colors, textures...in essence, we are always comparing something to something that may or may not be better, so how does one stop comparing when it comes to relationships?

Do you compare the love you felt for someone in the past, to the love you feel for someone in your present? Do you compare the love and affection that either person shows/showed you? Do you compare style of dress, mannerisms, sexual experiences/desire, ways of expressing emotions, laugh, smell, touch, beliefs regarding money/family/religion/culture? Is it a good idea to compare or does it bring more stress to your life? Is it easier to just say "the past didn't work out so just drop it and move on"? Is that easier said than done?

When you have experienced what you believe to be true, genuine love for another human being and you felt that reciprocated, how can you simply not compare anything else to it?

love is love

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Saturday, May 21, 2011

The Rapture

This whole end of the world nonsense really got me thinking about my life today. At around 5:57pm before the “Rapture” was supposed to take place, someone asked me what my last wish would be if it were really going to happen. I told him that I didn’t really have a last wish because I thought I had lived a pretty well rounded, fulfilling and happy life. I have learned a great deal, traveled, impacted other people in what I believe to be a positive way and I have been loved and been in love. What more can I possibly ask for?

Then I thought about it for a little while longer and if it were the end of my life (at this point in my life), I would wonder....
Did I get to tell everyone what I really felt about them (good or bad)?
Did I show my family enough love and affection?
Did I miss out on an important aspect of life by not having started a family?
Do I regret not having pursued certain passions more strongly than others?
Should I have donated more, danced more, laughed more, loved more...or less?
Could I have forgiven you for all of the hurt and pain you (un)knowingly caused me?

Some other things also came to mind....
Would anyone even miss me if I wasn't around anymore?
If so, who?
Who would really, truly, deeply be affected emotionally if I were no longer here?

I may never know the answers to these questions, but at this point I do know that I will continue trying to be as positive as possible and giving of myself as much as I can without letting go of who I am and what makes me uniquely me.

Monday, May 9, 2011

A Mother

5/8/11

A mother
A woman
A friend
A hero
A mentor
A huge support system
A light at the end of a dark tunnel
Someone to cling to when you are hurting
Someone to look to when your vision is cloudy
Someone who's smile can melt your heart, fix what is wrong and make you happy in just a moment
Someone that doesn't see your flaws, but will easily tell you when you're wrong
Someone that will not only fix your booboo when you are two, but when you are thirty, forty and til her very last breath
Someone that will not only give you advice, they will usually (always) be right too!
A breath of fresh air
A wealth of knowledge
A true warrior and survivor
One of the strongest people you will ever meet...physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually
One of the most caring beings on the planet
One of the greatest resources you can ever rely on
A reflection of who I am
A reflection of who I wish to become
A reflection of all that is positive and good
A friend
A woman
A mother

Anyone can have a baby, but only a real woman can become a mother.

These are mere words that only touch the surface of who a true mother is. The list is endless and rightfully so, as we could not be where we are today if it weren't for our mothers and all of the caring women in our lives because even those women in our lives that are not mothers are usually motherly, caring, motivating and guiding.
God bless all mothers, God bless all women today and every day of their lives. May they continue giving their gifts are freely as they do and may their love be reciprocated twenty times over.

My mother may never truly know how much she means to me, but the tears of joy that come to my eyes when I think of how wonderful she is are true, they come from my soul and I will continue trying to show her how amazing she is. I know I can be a pain in the butt sometimes so I thank you for being you and for always being there for me. I love you now and will love you always.
Happy Mother's Day

From my soul,
~Yomaris

Monday, May 2, 2011

Chris Brown - She Ain't You

You break up with someone, start a new relationship, think you have really moved on, but after a while, you realize that this new person (as Chris Brown would say) "doesn't compare"? This person could be incredibly good for you and could treat you exactly how you think you should be treated, but there is simply something off. Something that just doesn't allow you to open up to them. What would you do if you were faced with this situation? Do you let go of your current partner and try to rekindle that old flame? What if you do and you realize that the old flame is now a pile of ashes? What if they have moved on or do not feel the same about you anymore? Do you continue in this new relationship while constantly thinking about the past? Would that be fair to your partner? Would you want that done to you? Why did the old relationship end? Were they legitimate reasons or just excuses for "I'm scared." Is it something you really want to go back to? Has so much time passed that you may realize you have grown apart and are both very different or something you may not really want anymore? Is it better to just do your best to let go of the past and try to move on? Or is it impossible to really move on until you know that it truly could not work with that first person?

What do you do when your every effort to move on is just resulting in dead ends that lead you back to that emotional crossroad?

btw...I couldn't help think this is directed towards Rhianna. Her song below...may have in fact been directed toward Chris....What do you think?



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