Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Can you be be fulfilled in a relationship where you see marriage in your future, but your partner does not think they ever want to be married? Is it that they do not see themselves ever getting married...or that maybe they do not see themselves getting married to you?

12 comments:

Divino DeNegro said...

that could be a bit of a problem. one sees a future in union and the other doesn't rule out the possibility of an alternative future, like without their current partner.

Molike Green said...

Beautiful I hope this is not your situation ...

Mia Bauman said...

It's probably not the time for them, but i suggest not wasting your time either. Maybe you'll meet at another time. Men can be slower for these things.

Michael Valentine said...

lol marriage, dont get me started.

Lilizita Rodrigues said...

hmm tough situation. I do believe if someone truly really truly loves someone they will do whatever it takes for them to be together including marriage. if he truly loves you he will not let you go because he doesnt want to marry you. This is his problem! He is getting married because commitment most likely scares the shit out of him and it is cheaper to say its over vs getting a divorce. THIS BETTER NOT BE YOUR SITUATION!!!!!!!!!!

Free Hearts and Minds said...

lol Wow! Lovin' the support out there. Thanks Lili and Molike!! Actually, it's not my situation...I'm not in a relationship. It was just a question that came to mind so I wanted to pose the question.

Xavi Original said...

can you ever feel fulfilled in a relationship that lacks something so prudent to you?

Esther Mireya Tejeda said...

Usually when someone doesn't want to get married, what they're REALLY saying is "I don't want to get married to YOU". At least, that's why I've said... LOL :)

Daniel Zimmermann said...

Don't get involved, have an open heart, n keep it real!!!

-d

Free Hearts and Minds said...

"In matters of style, swim with the current; in matters of principle, stand like a rock." -Thomas Jefferson

Free Hearts and Minds said...

"Don’t compromise yourself. You are all you’ve got." -Janis Joplin

altacus said...

If being married is something you value and is important to you, finding someone who shares that is key to a healthy relationship.