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Tuesday, May 5, 2009
Do you think people could change?
Or do people just put up a front to try to win someone over and then go back to their ways?
well, my 2 centavos, is that some people can change...however, some changes are made but some are TOO DEEPLY ingrained whether it is a result of their socialization as a child or a result of their personality already being molded. (we sometimes misinterpret this as selfishness, when in reality they may be incapable of changing) He/she is always ... Read Moreflirting with the opposite sex b/c of some deep seated need for validation for example...not that they are a "hoe" or a "dog". I think most people change when that constant stimulus is applied i.e. a nagging wife or girlfriend making him/her change, but who wants to continue to nag some chic or dude to change their habits re: x,y,z ...you feel me? At some point one gets tired of always babying, trying to mold and shape someone and they just leave.
4 comments:
People can change though true change is rare. When change occurs, they'll be no doubt in your mind. If there is doubt, it's just wishful thinking.
Omg! That is kind of something I'm going through now. I believe people just are who they are.
I think people can only change when they move on...going back only keeps us frozen in time. And who needs that really?
well, my 2 centavos, is that some people can change...however, some changes are made but some are TOO DEEPLY ingrained whether it is a result of their socialization as a child or a result of their personality already being molded. (we sometimes misinterpret this as selfishness, when in reality they may be incapable of changing) He/she is always ... Read Moreflirting with the opposite sex b/c of some deep seated need for validation for example...not that they are a "hoe" or a "dog". I think most people change when that constant stimulus is applied i.e. a nagging wife or girlfriend making him/her change, but who wants to continue to nag some chic or dude to change their habits re: x,y,z ...you feel me? At some point one gets tired of always babying, trying to mold and shape someone and they just leave.
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