Monday, August 25, 2008

Decisions...

"It's about the fact that I wasn't even a factor in his decision making process.  Why is it so hard for you to factor me into your life in any real way?"  {Carrie, Sex and the City, Season 2, Episode 24 "La Douleur Exquise!"}

Have you ever felt like you were left out of the equation when your significant other was making a big decision in his/her life?  Moving to another state/country, going back to school, making a career change, the need to see other people, going on a quick lunch date with an Ex, and the list goes on...  Why/how could they not consider your feelings and how their decision would affect you or the relationship?  Did they say they did consider you, but didn't think it would have a negative impact on your life/relationship?  How did the change in their life affect yours?

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