Settle Down
By Perez Hilton
"Is the sweetheart you married, the husband you expected him to be?"
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Saturday, August 21, 2010
Que Lloren
Que Lloren
By: Ivy Queen
Que lloren
Una mas
de la diva (diva)
Sentimiento (sentimiento)
Pa las mujeres pa (eyy)
Me dijeron que los hombre no deben llorar
Y que de amor no se mueren
eso no es verdad
Todos caen por amor
caen por una caricia
caeran por la pasion
o caen por la codicia
Asi es la vida
siempre se ama a lo q no se olvida
Se buscan la mujer prohibida
O se buscan una querida
Envidia
Asi es la vida
cuando le toca la mujer
llorar para luego perder
o amar a un hombre que es infiel
y ver
que del amor nadie te salvara
que por amor somos capas de matar
y que el amor abeces es ignorante
ahora que lloren
que les toca su parte
que lloren
lo que yo quiero es
que lloren
que admitan de sus errores
para q asi una los perdone
y lloren
Me dijeren que los hombre no deben llorar (no no no no no)
Y que de amor no se mueren
eso no es verdad
Todos caen por amor (caen por amor)
caen por una caricia (por una caricia)
Caeran por la pasion
o caen por la codicia
Porque es la ley del amor
el valorar tu mujer
y si tu no lo haces bien
sabe la vas a perder
muchas somos fuertes
y otras somos la miel
ponte otros zapatos cuando somos infiel
Asi es la vida
siempre se ama a lo que no se olvida
Se buscan la mujer prohibida
O se buscan una querida
Envidia
Asi es la vida
cuando le toca la mujer
llorar para luego perder
o amar a un hombre que es infiel
y ver...
Me dijeren que los hombres no deben llorar (no no no no no)
Y que de amor no se mueren
eso no es verdad
Todos caen por amor (caen por amor)
caen por una caricia (por una caricia)
Caeran por la pasion
o caen por la codicia
que lloren
lo que yo quiero es
que lloren
que admitan de sus errores
para q asi una los perdone
y lloren
que lloren
lo que yo quiero es
que lloren
que admitan de sus errores
para q asi una los perdone
y lloren
llorennn
diva eehh esto es sentimiento pa
ehh urba y monserrate los jeadais
dale duro papa
que lloren que lloren
dale duro papa huyy
que lloren
By: Ivy Queen
Que lloren
Una mas
de la diva (diva)
Sentimiento (sentimiento)
Pa las mujeres pa (eyy)
Me dijeron que los hombre no deben llorar
Y que de amor no se mueren
eso no es verdad
Todos caen por amor
caen por una caricia
caeran por la pasion
o caen por la codicia
Asi es la vida
siempre se ama a lo q no se olvida
Se buscan la mujer prohibida
O se buscan una querida
Envidia
Asi es la vida
cuando le toca la mujer
llorar para luego perder
o amar a un hombre que es infiel
y ver
que del amor nadie te salvara
que por amor somos capas de matar
y que el amor abeces es ignorante
ahora que lloren
que les toca su parte
que lloren
lo que yo quiero es
que lloren
que admitan de sus errores
para q asi una los perdone
y lloren
Me dijeren que los hombre no deben llorar (no no no no no)
Y que de amor no se mueren
eso no es verdad
Todos caen por amor (caen por amor)
caen por una caricia (por una caricia)
Caeran por la pasion
o caen por la codicia
Porque es la ley del amor
el valorar tu mujer
y si tu no lo haces bien
sabe la vas a perder
muchas somos fuertes
y otras somos la miel
ponte otros zapatos cuando somos infiel
Asi es la vida
siempre se ama a lo que no se olvida
Se buscan la mujer prohibida
O se buscan una querida
Envidia
Asi es la vida
cuando le toca la mujer
llorar para luego perder
o amar a un hombre que es infiel
y ver...
Me dijeren que los hombres no deben llorar (no no no no no)
Y que de amor no se mueren
eso no es verdad
Todos caen por amor (caen por amor)
caen por una caricia (por una caricia)
Caeran por la pasion
o caen por la codicia
que lloren
lo que yo quiero es
que lloren
que admitan de sus errores
para q asi una los perdone
y lloren
que lloren
lo que yo quiero es
que lloren
que admitan de sus errores
para q asi una los perdone
y lloren
llorennn
diva eehh esto es sentimiento pa
ehh urba y monserrate los jeadais
dale duro papa
que lloren que lloren
dale duro papa huyy
que lloren
La Vida Es Así
La Vida Es Así
By: Ivy Queen
He recibido una llamada Me dijeron que te vieron
No quiero peros tampoco celos
Guarda tu escena no me des excusas pa
No voy a escuchar así que cálmala
Ya lo se todo me dijeron de ella
Me dijeron su vida En verdad me dan pena
Si tu te crees que con mis brazos
Cruzados yo me quedare
Me miro al espejo
Me peino y me maquillo
Un vestido corto sabes lo que te digo
Me montare en mi carro Por que se su dirección
Que aguante presión de este mujeron!!!
Hola!!! atrevida yo te traigo una noticia
Por eso es mi sonrisa Te la dare sin prisa
El hombre con quien sales Es mío y tú lo sabes!!
Pero aqui esta el detalle en la cama no vale...
Por eso vine a felicitarte
De lo que me libraste
Y tengo que confesarte
Mientras toman su tiempo
A alguien lo estoy viendo
Un hombre de verdad y no la basura que yo tengo
La vida es así
Si la sobras de otra te hace a ti feliz
Aquí esta el detalle
Yo te lo regalo por todo el sufrimiento
Y el dano que a causado
La vida es así
Ahora grito a viva voz que con alguien soy feliz
Alguien que me consiente
Me trata diferente me lleva de su mano
Me dice lo que siente
Para de esa escusas que yo tengo una grande
Callare la boca y coge lo que te toca
Lo Que se hace se tiene que pagar
No me distes mi lugar no tienes que regresar
Tengo alguien que me ama al fiiin.....
Yo tengo quien me toque a miii......
Alguien que me merece y que su amor me crece
Me hace sentir grande alguien que por mi rece
Alguien que me ama al fin.....
Yo tengo quien me toque a miii....
Aquí esta el detalle Si no cuidas lo tuyo
Otro llegara y la hará sentir suyo
No quiero peros tampoco celos (x4)
Así que cálmala (x4)
Ivy Queen
Hey keko music
La Reyna de este movimiento
By: Ivy Queen
He recibido una llamada Me dijeron que te vieron
No quiero peros tampoco celos
Guarda tu escena no me des excusas pa
No voy a escuchar así que cálmala
Ya lo se todo me dijeron de ella
Me dijeron su vida En verdad me dan pena
Si tu te crees que con mis brazos
Cruzados yo me quedare
Me miro al espejo
Me peino y me maquillo
Un vestido corto sabes lo que te digo
Me montare en mi carro Por que se su dirección
Que aguante presión de este mujeron!!!
Hola!!! atrevida yo te traigo una noticia
Por eso es mi sonrisa Te la dare sin prisa
El hombre con quien sales Es mío y tú lo sabes!!
Pero aqui esta el detalle en la cama no vale...
Por eso vine a felicitarte
De lo que me libraste
Y tengo que confesarte
Mientras toman su tiempo
A alguien lo estoy viendo
Un hombre de verdad y no la basura que yo tengo
La vida es así
Si la sobras de otra te hace a ti feliz
Aquí esta el detalle
Yo te lo regalo por todo el sufrimiento
Y el dano que a causado
La vida es así
Ahora grito a viva voz que con alguien soy feliz
Alguien que me consiente
Me trata diferente me lleva de su mano
Me dice lo que siente
Para de esa escusas que yo tengo una grande
Callare la boca y coge lo que te toca
Lo Que se hace se tiene que pagar
No me distes mi lugar no tienes que regresar
Tengo alguien que me ama al fiiin.....
Yo tengo quien me toque a miii......
Alguien que me merece y que su amor me crece
Me hace sentir grande alguien que por mi rece
Alguien que me ama al fin.....
Yo tengo quien me toque a miii....
Aquí esta el detalle Si no cuidas lo tuyo
Otro llegara y la hará sentir suyo
No quiero peros tampoco celos (x4)
Así que cálmala (x4)
Ivy Queen
Hey keko music
La Reyna de este movimiento
Friday, August 20, 2010
Does Your Man Receive Too Much Facebook Love?
Once upon a time you were happy and “In a Relationship” on Facebook. And then . . . Wait for it . . . There it is: you started to notice how much attention his profile was receiving. Whether a flirtatious wall post, a compromising tagged photo, or you being exposed to his personal account—forms of seething jealousy were onward bound. And, as the story goes, it ripple waved into a dramatic showdown between you two. Your relationship status and emotional sentiments were eventually updated to “It’s Complicated. You two will surely break up in the near future. The End.
You aren’t the only one irked by your partner’s Facebook reception. Over 50% of surveyors admit to growing jealous and insecure in their relationship due to activity on Facebook. Perhaps this is because the entire Facebook experience is a hatchery for relational jealousy, ignited by a number of scenarios:
The Picture. A classic “Having the time of our lives” shot is added to his recent pictures: a party atmosphere gleaming with Jack-o-lantern smiles, sweat studded foreheads, and toasts to the photographer. L’chayim. He has that stretched goofy grin painted on his face, the one you know from personal experience, the one that only creeps out during the best of times. He’s happy, his boys are happy, but that chick—the one clutched to him in partial embrace—she’s extra happy and you sense something in her smile and eyes begging for full coverage.
Common Response: A lingering stare followed by a customary inquiry, “Who the F*@! Is she?” A neurotic brainstorm ensues as you scan through his pictures, rampage his friend list, and attempt to solve the mystery of the friendly female friend.
The Wall. A female you don’t recognize leaves “Thank you!” on his wall. Slightly invasive, but you can’t help but wonder what her thankfulness stems from. You don’t have access to her profile to pry as freely as you’d wish so you’re left idle, sitting behind your computer with nothing but pushy presumptuous thoughts. It could be innocent—maybe he wished her well on her birthday and she was thankful. Or maybe not so innocent—he complimented a picture of her clad in a little bit more than a birthday suit and, yes, she was thankful.
Common Response: You’re going to ask him about it or silently obsess about it. Either way, it has formed an impressionable wrinkle in your brain.
The Status. It’s a day when he’s clearly feeling himself, and his FB status proclaims it with ringing bells. His self-boast cries for attention: his 6 pack is upgrading to an 8; his promo at work is signed, sealed, and delivered; or he identifies with a particular Jay-Z quote that beats its chest with bravado. On cue, a stream of applause follows his update with congratulatory praise and a slew of “Like” clicks. Traditionally, some girl goes IN and leaves a comment that is the real world equivalent of a set of shimmying pom-poms and a high kick. He responds coyly and she serves again, this time with greater force. The volley continues, and, sure enough, a “wink” emoticon or inside joke is sure to surface any moment now . . . Wait for it . . . There it is.
Common Response: Disgust, lathered in suds of annoyance that will surely manifest indirectly in your future correspondence with him, a.k.a. “You will act the F*@! Up!”
The Poke List. It was accidental (or a keenly executed maneuver), but you snagged a glimpse of his poke list. A long list of blue highlighted names exposes a network of flirtatious admirers who wouldn’t mind a poke or prod from yours truly. While there is no obvious rationale behind your feelings of betrayal—they still stir.
Common Response: Irrationalized drama milli-steps away from BEEF.
Relationship Status. It’s no secret—in the real world you guys are an item. However, in the online sphere you’re unattached because he doesn’t want to write who he’s in a relationship with, or he chooses to exclude the relationship tab all together. It’s not that you necessarily need the online community to know that you two are chain-linked together; however, his opposition is undeniably sketchy.
Common Response: Drama.
Why Does Facebook Summon So Many Jealous Feelings?
Facebook is helium to the relationships on it; they’re susceptible to being gassed up and burst. By design, it’s voyeuristically invasive and encourages its participants to believe that their minor activities are monumental. Where else does declaring a night out with the girls solicit public commentary and is worthy of publication in a News Feed accessible to a 3rd of the world’s population? A matter of fact: Facebook does such an awesome job at mustering up sensationalism that people begin to view themselves and other people by their profile; our real life selves seem to fall short when measured up against the height of approval received by our online selves.
It is no wonder that all of the “love” that his profile lassos strikes so many nerves in you: it is marketed as big packages, and, naturally, you regard these packages as big deliveries. However, know better. Just because Facebook wants to act like the anti-Cupid, doesn’t mean you two have to be casualties of love. Successfully step above the neurotic jealousy trip that Facebook specializes in provoking.
Unless, that is, you’re just a jealous person. In which case, you should disregard this entire article.
Monday Aug 16, 2010 – By Guerdley Cajus
Source: Clutch Mag Online
You aren’t the only one irked by your partner’s Facebook reception. Over 50% of surveyors admit to growing jealous and insecure in their relationship due to activity on Facebook. Perhaps this is because the entire Facebook experience is a hatchery for relational jealousy, ignited by a number of scenarios:
The Picture. A classic “Having the time of our lives” shot is added to his recent pictures: a party atmosphere gleaming with Jack-o-lantern smiles, sweat studded foreheads, and toasts to the photographer. L’chayim. He has that stretched goofy grin painted on his face, the one you know from personal experience, the one that only creeps out during the best of times. He’s happy, his boys are happy, but that chick—the one clutched to him in partial embrace—she’s extra happy and you sense something in her smile and eyes begging for full coverage.
Common Response: A lingering stare followed by a customary inquiry, “Who the F*@! Is she?” A neurotic brainstorm ensues as you scan through his pictures, rampage his friend list, and attempt to solve the mystery of the friendly female friend.
The Wall. A female you don’t recognize leaves “Thank you!” on his wall. Slightly invasive, but you can’t help but wonder what her thankfulness stems from. You don’t have access to her profile to pry as freely as you’d wish so you’re left idle, sitting behind your computer with nothing but pushy presumptuous thoughts. It could be innocent—maybe he wished her well on her birthday and she was thankful. Or maybe not so innocent—he complimented a picture of her clad in a little bit more than a birthday suit and, yes, she was thankful.
Common Response: You’re going to ask him about it or silently obsess about it. Either way, it has formed an impressionable wrinkle in your brain.
The Status. It’s a day when he’s clearly feeling himself, and his FB status proclaims it with ringing bells. His self-boast cries for attention: his 6 pack is upgrading to an 8; his promo at work is signed, sealed, and delivered; or he identifies with a particular Jay-Z quote that beats its chest with bravado. On cue, a stream of applause follows his update with congratulatory praise and a slew of “Like” clicks. Traditionally, some girl goes IN and leaves a comment that is the real world equivalent of a set of shimmying pom-poms and a high kick. He responds coyly and she serves again, this time with greater force. The volley continues, and, sure enough, a “wink” emoticon or inside joke is sure to surface any moment now . . . Wait for it . . . There it is.
Common Response: Disgust, lathered in suds of annoyance that will surely manifest indirectly in your future correspondence with him, a.k.a. “You will act the F*@! Up!”
The Poke List. It was accidental (or a keenly executed maneuver), but you snagged a glimpse of his poke list. A long list of blue highlighted names exposes a network of flirtatious admirers who wouldn’t mind a poke or prod from yours truly. While there is no obvious rationale behind your feelings of betrayal—they still stir.
Common Response: Irrationalized drama milli-steps away from BEEF.
Relationship Status. It’s no secret—in the real world you guys are an item. However, in the online sphere you’re unattached because he doesn’t want to write who he’s in a relationship with, or he chooses to exclude the relationship tab all together. It’s not that you necessarily need the online community to know that you two are chain-linked together; however, his opposition is undeniably sketchy.
Common Response: Drama.
Why Does Facebook Summon So Many Jealous Feelings?
Facebook is helium to the relationships on it; they’re susceptible to being gassed up and burst. By design, it’s voyeuristically invasive and encourages its participants to believe that their minor activities are monumental. Where else does declaring a night out with the girls solicit public commentary and is worthy of publication in a News Feed accessible to a 3rd of the world’s population? A matter of fact: Facebook does such an awesome job at mustering up sensationalism that people begin to view themselves and other people by their profile; our real life selves seem to fall short when measured up against the height of approval received by our online selves.
It is no wonder that all of the “love” that his profile lassos strikes so many nerves in you: it is marketed as big packages, and, naturally, you regard these packages as big deliveries. However, know better. Just because Facebook wants to act like the anti-Cupid, doesn’t mean you two have to be casualties of love. Successfully step above the neurotic jealousy trip that Facebook specializes in provoking.
Unless, that is, you’re just a jealous person. In which case, you should disregard this entire article.
Monday Aug 16, 2010 – By Guerdley Cajus
Source: Clutch Mag Online
Sunday, August 15, 2010
Female Orgasm Tips
Experience ''OMG, Yes!'' Pleasure Tonight
1. Do It Before Sundown
Most of us get it on before bed, but that isn't the best time for women to have sex, says Laurie Mintz, PhD, author of A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex. Not only are you sleepy, but postwork worries cause your body to release the hormone cortisol, squashing your sex drive. In the a.m., women and men have naturally higher testosterone levels (which explains his morning wood). So set your alarm to go off earlier, and give him a sexy wake-up call.
2. Treat Him Like a Sex Object
"Women spend too much energy worrying about turning a guy on," says Joel Block, PhD, coauthor of Sex Comes First. To enjoy sex more, be selfish. Ogle your guy as if he were Taylor Lautner in Eclipse. By assuming the role of the "viewer" and focusing on your desire, you're less likely to be self-conscious and more willing to do whatever comes to your dirty mind.
3. Let It All Hang Out
Do you suck in your tummy when you're on top? Bad idea. That makes it harder to breathe deeply, which is a key to orgasm, says certified sexuality educator Amy Levine. Instead, try the tantric trick of slowing your breathing and taking deeper breaths. The extra oxygen will make your orgasm more intense by increasing blood flow below the belt.
4. Lock Eyes
You look everywhere but his eyes during the deed because it makes you feel vulnerable, says Block, but it's one of the best ways you can connect when naked. It sends the message that you're really into him and keeps your arousal high because your guy is mirroring his desire back at you. Ease into it by meeting his gaze for a few seconds and giving a sexy smile, then build up to longer eye contact.
5. Make Some Noise
Moaning, heavy breathing, and sighing during sex ups arousal by stimulating your central nervous system, says Mintz. Plus, if you don't speak up, he'll have a harder time figuring out what you like. Saying something like "Slow down — this feels incredible" is a positive way to get your message across, she says.
6. Insist on an O
You're so close, you can practically taste it, and then…he finishes first. Don't call it a night: "Make it clear that your needs are just as important," says Mintz. If you don't, it's easy to build up resentment (even if you're not aware of it), which can strain your relationship. Focus on your orgasm first, or if that doesn't work, brush your lips against his ear and purr "I want you to help me finish." Then hand him your vibrator.
Source: Cosmo
1. Do It Before Sundown
Most of us get it on before bed, but that isn't the best time for women to have sex, says Laurie Mintz, PhD, author of A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex. Not only are you sleepy, but postwork worries cause your body to release the hormone cortisol, squashing your sex drive. In the a.m., women and men have naturally higher testosterone levels (which explains his morning wood). So set your alarm to go off earlier, and give him a sexy wake-up call.
2. Treat Him Like a Sex Object
"Women spend too much energy worrying about turning a guy on," says Joel Block, PhD, coauthor of Sex Comes First. To enjoy sex more, be selfish. Ogle your guy as if he were Taylor Lautner in Eclipse. By assuming the role of the "viewer" and focusing on your desire, you're less likely to be self-conscious and more willing to do whatever comes to your dirty mind.
3. Let It All Hang Out
Do you suck in your tummy when you're on top? Bad idea. That makes it harder to breathe deeply, which is a key to orgasm, says certified sexuality educator Amy Levine. Instead, try the tantric trick of slowing your breathing and taking deeper breaths. The extra oxygen will make your orgasm more intense by increasing blood flow below the belt.
4. Lock Eyes
You look everywhere but his eyes during the deed because it makes you feel vulnerable, says Block, but it's one of the best ways you can connect when naked. It sends the message that you're really into him and keeps your arousal high because your guy is mirroring his desire back at you. Ease into it by meeting his gaze for a few seconds and giving a sexy smile, then build up to longer eye contact.
5. Make Some Noise
Moaning, heavy breathing, and sighing during sex ups arousal by stimulating your central nervous system, says Mintz. Plus, if you don't speak up, he'll have a harder time figuring out what you like. Saying something like "Slow down — this feels incredible" is a positive way to get your message across, she says.
6. Insist on an O
You're so close, you can practically taste it, and then…he finishes first. Don't call it a night: "Make it clear that your needs are just as important," says Mintz. If you don't, it's easy to build up resentment (even if you're not aware of it), which can strain your relationship. Focus on your orgasm first, or if that doesn't work, brush your lips against his ear and purr "I want you to help me finish." Then hand him your vibrator.
Source: Cosmo
Friday, August 13, 2010
Marriage Proposals that went Awry
Imagine losing your engagement ring before even being able to say I DO?!
Imagine losing your engagement ring before even being able to say I DO?!
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